One of the greatest lessons I have learned is that I am not responsible for how people act toward me. I am, however, responsible to how I respond to them. I read somewhere that the best way to deal with people talking bad about you behind your back was to live your life in such a way that no one would believe them anyway.
Thankfully I can’t think of very many enemies that I have. Hopefully I will be like my dad. He doesn’t have an enemy in the world. He is 87 so he has outlived them all.